- You’re Invited to the Feast! Saturday, January 7
Again this year the vestry is planning a wonderful feast to celebrate our patron saint and, even more importantly, the people who are our Church of St. John the Evangelist. The date is Saturday, January 7, beginning at 5:00 p.m. with Evening Prayer. Please remember to turn in your RSVP cards or phone the parish office so we can get a head count for dinner. - Lessons and Carols, January 1
Services of Scripture readings interspersed with music are a rich part of our Anglican worship tradition. This Sunday’s 10:00 a.m. service will be a service of Christmas Lessons and Carols. Holy Communion, although not a traditional part of these services, will be included on Sunday. - The Feast of the Epiphany (The Manifestation of Our Lord Jesus Christ to the Gentiles)
The Holy Eucharist will be celebrated Friday, January 6, beginning at 7:00 p.m. - Recycle Your Live Christmas Tree
Undecorated, live Christmas trees can be recycled January 7 and 14 from 9:00 a.m. until 12:00 p.m. at Irons Oaks (Vollmer Road just west of Western Avenue). Recycling keeps trees out of the landfill and the mulch will be used at Irons Oaks. - Lawrence Hall Christmas Gifts
Thank you to the Daughters of the King and Iris Bestow for coordinating Christmas donations for Lawrence Hall. And praise God for all who contributed. $1,210 in checks and gift cards helped provide Christmas gifts for the children at Lawrence Hall. - Vestry Nominations
The vestry nominating committee is meeting this Sunday. If you feel called to ministry on the vestry and would like to be considered in the nominating process, please speak to the Rector or one of the wardens. - Vestry Minutes
Vestry minutes continue to be posted on this blog. Click on the "Vestry Minutes" label. Minutes are posted after they are approved. The November minutes are now available. - Offering Envelopes
Offering Envelopes for 2012 are available for pick up in the undercroft. Envelopes that are not picked up will be mailed early in 2012. - Holiday Office Closure
The parish office will be closed December 30 and January 2 for the New Year’s Holiday. - 2011 Contributions
The “books” for 2011 will remain open through January 8. Contributions clearly marked 2011 will be posted to 2011 statements. All others will be posted to 2012.
Thursday, December 29, 2011
Announcements for January 1
Reflection for January 1
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Christmas Worship Schedule
4:00 p.m. - The Holy Eucharist, with the children's Christmas Pageant
10:00 p.m. - Musical anthems and carols
10:30 p.m. - Festival Choral Holy Eucharist (The Christ Mass)
Christmas Day
10:00 a.m. - The Holy Eucharist
The First Sunday after Christmas Day (January 1)
8:00 a.m. - The Holy Eucharist, celebrating Holy Name Day
10:00 a.m. - A Festival of Christmas Lessons and Carols, with the Holy Eucharist
Minutes of the Vestry Meeting - November 21, 2011
Formation
Following evening prayer, the vestry assembled in the undercroft meeting room and participated in Bible study before the business portion of the meeting began. Those present were Pastor Kristin Orr, Senior Warden Cyndie Knoll; Junior Warden Frank So; vestry members Candice Barrera, Mary Jean Bond, Bev Keene, Carolyn Oyster, R.J. VanSwol; Treasurer Clay Denton; and Clerk Susan Marquis. Vestry members Anne Edwards, John Huntoon, and Jack Zielinski were absent.
Parish Stewardship
Minutes
Frank So moved that the minutes from the October 17th meeting be approved. Bev Keene seconded, and the motion passed.
Treasurer’s Report
Our higher-than-usual water bill probably was the result of a toilet in the atrium that had been running for perhaps as long as five months. Pastor Orr transferred funds and paid for the roofing project. This will show up in next month’s report. We most likely will end up in the black for 2011 as a result of unanticipated income and savings on salaries. Cyndie Knoll moved that the treasurer’s report be accepted, and M.J. Bond seconded. The motion passed.
Information
Rector’s Report
The roofing project essentially has been closed out. Some additional changes were necessarily made to the original plan. The metal deck and almost all of the wooden frame needed to be replaced, and most or all of the drains needed to be replaced as well. The leak near the columbarium entrance seems to be fixed.
The roofers still need to replace some interior ceiling tiles and put in a downspout or some other solution to keep water from coming down onto areas where people walk.
Pastor Orr is ending her service on Diocesan Council and has been appointed Dean of the Joliet Deanery. She will act as a liaison between deanery parishes and the diocese.
At the recent diocesan convention the appointment of Bishop Christopher Epting was announced. Bishop Epting is the retired bishop of Iowa. He will be serving part-time as an assisting bishop in this diocese and will assume his post in January. Bishop Lee’s convention address and sermon can be found online. Pastor Orr will summarize convention resolutions at a later date.
A convention offering of over $10,000 was collected, much of which will support work in our companion diocese as well as work within our own diocese.
Pastor Orr will start to look into updating/upgrading our parish web page. She has posted holy union/holy matrimony guidelines as well as alcohol and gambling policies.
Wardens’ Reports and/or Reports from Parish Organizations
Cyndie Knoll announced that the theme for the upcoming patronal feast is Amazing gRace. Anne Edwards will be the game leader for the event, and Cynthia Turnquest will again fashion the invitations.
Cyndie noted that at yesterday’s later Eucharist there was an impressive line of people depositing their pledge cards.
Upcoming Parish Events
Saturday, December 3rd: the annual ECW Cookie Walk
Sunday evening, December 4th: St. John’s first Taize service
Discussion and Decisions
Stewardship
Sixty pledges have been made for a total thus far of $169,584. Pastor Orr hopes to get another 30 pledges. The vestry discussed what to do next in order to encourage those who have not yet pledged to do so. It was decided first to use the usual methods of parish communication to remind people about pledging. Written reminders will be mailed to those who have not pledged by the end of the Thanksgiving weekend. Vestry members will make low-key phone calls after that.
Pastor Orr thanked Frank So, Cyndie Knoll, Anne Edwards, and R.J. VanSwol for the personal stewardship reflections that they shared with the parish.
Building Project
Pastor Orr stated that volunteers are needed to search for grants and to assess fund-raising potential. We will revisit this issue later.
A nominating committee was formed to choose a slate of wardens and vestry members prior to the January parish meeting. The committee consists of the rector, the two current wardens, and one member from each vestry class. The vestry members chosen by lot are M.J. Bond, Bev Keene, and Anne Edwards.
Closing
The meeting ended with prayer at 8:40 PM. The next meeting is scheduled for December 19th.
--Susan Marquis, Clerk of the Vestry
Approved: December 19, 2011
Announcements for December 24/25
- RSVP for the Feast
Again this year the vestry is planning a wonderful feast to celebrate our patron saint and, even more importantly, the people who are our Church of St. John the Evangelist. The date is Saturday, January 7. Please remember to turn in your RSVP cards. - Lessons and Carols, January 1
Services of Scripture readings interspersed with music of prayer and praise are a rich part of our Anglican worship tradition. Next Sunday’s 10:00 a.m. service will be a service of Christmas Lessons and Carols. Holy Communion, although not a traditional part of these services, will be included on Sunday. - Christian Formation Classes on Vacation
Christian formation classes for children and adults are on Christmas vacation. They will resume January 8. - Pledge Reminder
Thank you to all who have returned pledge cards for 2012. If you are still intending to get yours in, please do so as soon as possible. - Offering Envelopes
Offering Envelopes for 2012 are available for pick up in the undercroft. Envelopes that are not picked up will be mailed early in 2012. - Holiday Office Closures
The parish office will be closed Friday, December 23 and Monday, December 26, for the Christmas holiday and December 30 and January 2 for the New Year’s Holiday. - Wednesday Healing Service Canceled Next Week
The Wednesday celebration of the Holy Eucharist with healing will not be held on Wednesday, December 28. It will resume January 4.
Friday, December 16, 2011
Announcements for December 18
- Vestry Meeting
The vestry will meet Monday, December 19, beginning at 7:00 p.m. - Christmas Pageant Rehearsals
Rehearsals for the children’s Christmas pageant are this Sunday, December 18, at 9:00 a.m. and Friday, December 23, at 4:00 p.m. - Christmas Service Schedule
On Christmas Eve, worship services begin at 4:00 p.m. and 10:30 p.m. The children’s Christmas pageant is part of the early service. The late service is preceded by a musical celebration of anthems and carols beginning at 10:00 p.m. On Christmas Day, Sunday, December 25, there will be one worship service, beginning at 10:00 a.m.
- Sunday School Holiday
Sunday School classes for all ages—children and adults—will not meet December 18, 25 and January 1. (During the Sunday School hour, children should come to the pageant rehearsal on December 18). Classes will resume January 8. - Mark your Calendars for the Feast, January 7
The vestry invites everyone in the parish to celebrate the feast day of our patron saint at a festive dinner Saturday, January 7. Your invitation will be arriving soon. We look forward to celebrating together. - Sexton Position Open
We are currently advertising to fill the sexton position on a permanent basis. If you know of anyone who might be interested, please ask him or her to contact Pastor Orr. It is a part-time position. The primary duties are cleaning and light maintenance.
Reflection for December 18
Friday, December 9, 2011
Announcements for December 11
- Help the Kids at Lawrence Hall
Since 2004 the Daughters of the King have been committed to sharing the spirit of Christmas with the children of Lawrence Hall. Lawrence Hall Youth Services provides greatly needed services and programs for kids and their families suffering from trauma, abuse and neglect. Gift cards from Target or Best Buy or checks made out to Lawrence Hall may provide the only gifts these children receive this year. If you can help, please contact Iris Bestow. - Be a Part of the Children’s Christmas Pageant
Children of all ages are invited to be a part of the Christmas pageant at the 4:00 p.m. service on Christmas Eve. Families, please let Pastor Orr know as soon as possible whether or not you can participate in the pageant. - Holiday Concert this Sunday, December 11
The Grande Prairie Singers present “A Winter Serenade” at 4:00 p.m., Sunday, December 11, at Faith United Protestant Church in Park Forest. Tickets are $20 at the door ($18) in advance, but they’re available from Betsy Burgwald for the special price of only $10 each. - Taizé Recap
Approximately 70 people attended the Taizé service last Sunday (about half not parishioners of St. John’s). It was a spirit-filled gift of peace during the Advent season. Thanks to Peter Irvine, Janet Irvine, Steven Russell, Sue Buckman, the St. John’s choir, and Amy Pelletier (from IJP) for their contributions to the service.
Reflection for December 11
Friday, December 2, 2011
Announcements for December 4
- Taizé Service, This Sunday, December 4
All are warmly invited to this service of simple songs, reflection and prayer. Give yourself the gift of peace and renewal during the Advent season. At St. John’s this Sunday, December 4, at 7:00 p.m. - Cathedral Shelter Christmas Basket Pick Up
Thank you to all who have adopted families and senior in the Cathedral Shelter Christmas Basket program. Please make note of the packaging directions in the Cathedral Shelter information and ensure that your boxes are at St. John’s by 9:00 a.m. December 8. - Little Hands Goes Shopping
The children of Little Hands meet at the church this Sunday, December 4, at 2:00 p.m. to go shopping for their Cathedral Shelter Christmas basket family. - Help the Kids at Lawrence Hall
Since 2004 the Daughters of the King have been committed to sharing the spirit of Christmas with the children of Lawrence Hall. Lawrence Hall Youth Services provides greatly needed services and programs for kids and their families suffering from trauma, abuse and neglect. Gift cards from Target or Best Buy or checks made out to Lawrence Hall may provide the only gifts these children receive this year. If you can help, please contact Iris Bestow before December 6. - Be a Part of the Children’s Christmas Pageant
Children of all ages are invited to be a part of the Christmas pageant at the 4:00 p.m. service on Christmas Eve. Families, please let Pastor Orr know as soon as possible whether or not you can participate in the pageant. - Handel’s Messiah, December 4
The Illiana Oratorio Society presents Handel's Messiah at the First Christian Reformed Church, 16248 South Park Ave., in South Holland on Sunday, December 4th at 2:00 p.m. and again at Trinity Christian College in Palos Heights on Saturday, December 10th at 7:30 p.m. in the Ozinga Chapel. For further information, see Gale Michael. - Faith in Films views Bucket List
Faith in Films continues their exploration of forgiveness and reconciliation with the 2007 film Bucket List, staring Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman. Friday, December 9, beginning at 7:00 p.m. in the Guild Room. - Holiday Concert Sunday, December 11
The Grande Prairie Singers present “A Winter Serenade” at 4:00 p.m., Sunday, December 11, at Faith United Protestant Church in Park Forest. Tickets are $20 at the door ($18) in advance, but they’re available from Betsy Burgwald for the special price of only $10 each.
Reflection for December 4
The striking antitheses [within the Advent collect] are remarkable: cast away darkness, put on the light; mortal life, life immortal; great humility, glorious majesty. The word “now” is crucial: remembering the first advent and looking toward the second, we are now, in this time, to cast off the works of darkness and put on the armor of light (Marion J. Hatchett, Commentary on the American Prayer Book).
Saturday, November 26, 2011
Announcements for November 27
- Pledge Reminder
Pledge Sunday was last week, November 21. If you do plan to pledge and have not yet turned in your pledge card, please do so as promptly as possible. Thank you. - Holiday Cookie Walk
Please bring your goodies to the undercroft next Friday, December 2 from 10:00 am to 7:00 pm. Cookies should be brought in disposable containers and candies bagged or wrapped in small quantities. Thank you for taking the time and effort to bake cookies and make candies! The sale begins the following day, December 3, from 9:00 am until 11:30 am. Be sure to bring your families, neighbors and friends. - Taizé Service, December 4
All are warmly invited to this service of simple songs, reflection and prayer. Give yourself the gift of peace and renewal during the Advent season. At St. John’s, Sunday, December 4, at 7:00 p.m. - Cathedral Shelter Christmas Baskets
Information on this year’s Cathedral Shelter Christmas basket program is available in the parish office. Both families and seniors are available for adoption. Pick up day is December 8. - Help the Kids at Lawrence Hall
Since 2004 the Daughters of the King have been committed to sharing the spirit of Christmas with the children of Lawrence Hall. Lawrence Hall Youth Services provides greatly needed services and programs for kids and their families suffering from trauma, abuse and neglect. Gift cards from Target or Best Buy or checks made out to Lawrence Hall may provide the only gifts these children receive this year. If you can help, please contact Iris Bestow before December 6. - Make Your Own Advent Wreath
This Sunday, November 27, we will have materials available to make Advent wreaths for home use. Come to the undercroft during the 9:00 education hour. Sunday School classes are on vacation this Sunday. - Handel’s Messiah, December 4
The Illiana Oratorio Society presents Handel's Messiah at the First Christian Reformed Church, 16248 South Park Ave., in South Holland on Sunday, December 4th at 2:00 p.m. and again at Trinity Christian College in Palos Heights on Saturday, December 10th at 7:30 p.m. in the Ozinga Chapel. For further information, see Gale Michael. - Vestry Minutes Available Online
Vestry minutes, along with general parish and diocesan policies on gambling, alcohol and Holy Matrimony/Holy Union are now being posted on this blog. Look for the “Vestry Minutes” or “Policies” labels.
Reflection for November 27
Almighty God, give us grace to cast away the works of darkness, and put on the armor of light, now in the time of this mortal life in which your Son Jesus Christ came to visit us in great humility; that in the last day, when he shall come again in his glorious majesty to judge both the living and the dead, we may rise to the life immortal; through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Minutes of the Vestry Meeting - October 17, 2011
Formation
Following evening prayer, the vestry assembled in the undercroft meeting room. Those present were Pastor Kristin Orr, senior warden Cyndie Knoll; junior warden Frank So; vestry members Candice Barrera, Mary Jean Bond, Anne Edwards, John Huntoon, Bev Keene, R.J. Van Swol, and Jack Zielinski; treasurer Clay Denton; and clerk Susan Marquis. Vestry member Carolyn Oyster was absent.
Parish Stewardship
Minutes
Warden Frank So suggested that, in the wardens’ report section on page two of the September minutes, the wording be changed from “the building entranceway plans may have to be re-figured” to “the building entrance plans may be adaptable.”
Pastor Orr noted that in her report on page one, the class that Cynthia Turnquest and Mark Moxley are teaching should have been described as for children in grades 4-6 rather than grades 3-6.
Frank So moved that the minutes of the September vestry meeting be accepted, and John Huntoon seconded. The motion passed.
Treasurer’s Report
Clay Denton reported that September’s income was by far the lowest it has been in the last five years. We have, though, remained ahead of budget as a result of salary savings due to paid staff vacancies.
Cyndie Knoll made a motion to accept the treasurer’s report. R.J. Van Swol seconded, and the motion passed.
Information
Rector’s Report
Pastor Orr presented a report on the rector’s discretionary account for the third quarter of 2011. Jack Zielinski moved to acknowledge receipt of the report, and Bev Keene seconded. The motion was approved.
Pastor Orr has phoned the bank a couple of times regarding the fees for this account, but the bank has not yet returned her calls.
The roof work was finished last week. The roofers had to replace some of the deck and wooden boards that frame the deck. The old leaks were repaired, however a new leak has sprung. The roofers are working to repair that new leak.
Little Hands Ministry met yesterday for a project on water as a valuable resource and the importance of conserving at home. After learning about people who do not have access to fresh water, the children constructed a wishing/prayer well out of blocks to collect funds for the Bishop’s Challenge for wells.
Over the past month Pastor Orr conducted conversations with each vestry member about the issue of same-sex unions and the blessing of such unions at St. John’s. Most felt that the blessing of these unions was a good thing, although a few felt some discomfort. All, however, expressed support of gay and lesbian people in their lives. Pastor Orr said that she would write guidelines for blessings of unions of any sort. One part of this will be the necessity for those being blessed to have some connection with this parish. Something will appear in writing in “The Evangelist” and The Weekly e-vangelist.” She further stated that vestry members can be sources of healthy communication with the parish and should encourage people who need to talk to the rector to do so.
St. John’s will host an Advent Taize service at a date to be determined. This will be in collaboration with IJP, which has been doing Taizes intermittently.
Reports from Wardens and/or Other Parish Organizations
Senior warden Cyndie Knoll stated that the vestry could be proud of the roof repair.
The annual feast is coming up on January 7th, and the time has come to start planning. Cyndie asked for volunteers to form a feast-planning subcommittee to meet this Sunday after church. Cyndie, Frank, Bev, Candice, M.J. and Anne volunteered.
Upcoming Parish Events
The annual rector’s open house will be held on the afternoon of November 6th at the rectory. Also on that day, there will be a baptism at the 11:00 AM worship service. There will be a fall landscaping day on a Sunday in November at a date to be announced. Parishioners will be encouraged to come to church in casual clothes and stay after the 11:00 AM service to do some church yard work.
Discussion and Decisions
The vestry made final plans for this year’s stewardship campaign in preparation for Pledge Sunday on November 20th. In the past few years the church has mailed to parish households copies of financial data, pledge cards, and a letter from the senior warden. This will be done this year as well. There will be inserts in the bulletin during the month of November asking parishioners to submit a prayer for the parish. These prayers will be collected to be posted in the church and/or used in the Prayers of the People during worship. A vestry member will present stewardship reflections in the weeks leading up to Pledge Sunday. Speakers at both Sunday worship services will be Frank So on October 23, Cyndie Knoll on October 30th, and R.J. Van Swol on November 13th. Anne Edwards will submit written reflections for November 6th.
Closing
The meeting closed at 9:35 with prayer. The next vestry meeting will be held on November 21st.
Respectfully submitted,
Susan Marquis
Approved: November 21, 2011
Friday, November 18, 2011
Announcements for November 20
- Vestry
The vestry meets Monday, November 21, beginning at 7:00 p.m. - Holiday Cookie Walk
If you didn’t get a call asking you to bake your festive cookies or make candies for our Cookie Walk sale on December 3rd, please know it was an oversight. We need your help! Our Cookie Walk fame is spreading. - Stewardship: Annual Pledge Campaign
This Sunday, November 20, is stewardship Sunday. Please bring your pledges of time, talent and treasure and offer your pledge cards as part of the offertory during worship. - Cathedral Shelter Christmas Baskets
Information on this year’s Cathedral Shelter Christmas basket program is available in the parish office. Both families and seniors are available for adoption. Pick up day is December 8. - St. John’s Thanksgiving Service
The Holy Eucharist will be celebrated on Thanksgiving Day, November 24, at 10:00 a.m. - Little Hands Advent Project
Little Hands, St. John’s children’s outreach ministry, will meet this Sunday, November 20, from 4:00 – 5:00 p.m. in the Undercroft for our annual Advent pastoral inreach project. - “Blue Jeans” Sunday: This Sunday, November 20
Wear work clothes to church this Sunday, November 20, and stay an hour after church to help with fall landscaping work on the parish grounds. - Help Provide Clean Water around the World
This is the last Sunday the Little Hands “Praying Well” will be up in the undercroft. Please offer your prayers and your contributions to help provide clean water wells in areas of need. - Make Your Own Advent Wreath
Next Sunday, November 27, we will have materials available to make Advent wreaths for home use. Come to the undercroft during the 9:00 education hour. - Holiday Concert Sunday, December 11
The Grande Prairie Singers present "A Winter Serenade" at 4:00 p.m., Sunday, December 11, at Faith United Protestant Church in Park Forest. The performance opens with J.S. Bach's oratorio Magnificat with soloists and orchestra. The second half includes Schubert's "Ave Maria," "Jesus, Jesus, Rest Your Head," "'Twas the Night Before Christmas," and even Tom Lehrer's "I'm Spending Chanukah in Santa Monica"! Tickets are $20 at the door ($18 in advance); season tickets, $50. But they're available from Betsy Burgwald for the special price of only $10 each.
Reflection for November 20
Thursday, November 17, 2011
Episcopal Diocese of Chicago: Policy on Gambling
No agencies, committees, congregations, or entities of the Episcopal Diocese of Chicago shall raise funds by any form of gambling.
- Gambling is created for gain without service. The gambler always hopes to get something for nothing.
- Gambling creates an artificial risk which is not at all similar to the unavoidable risks of life.
- Gambling is done at the total cost of the loser. The winner cannot win save at the expense of another.
- The outcome of gambling depends upon the turn of chance.
Episcopal Diocese of Chicago: Policy on Alcohol Use at Church Functions
· Alcohol should not be served prior to worship or business meetings.
· All beverages and food containing alcohol must be clearly and distinctly labeled. This guidelines is most often forgotten where food is concerned. It must be remembered that the flavor of liquor (in food where the alcohol has been cooked out) is something which many persons in recovery wish to avoid.
· Food must be available at all functions where alcohol is served.
· Equally attractive, non-alcoholic alternatives must be offered as conspicuously as alcoholic beverages. Persons who wish to abstain from alcohol must be able to do so comfortably. It is critical that alternatives to non-alcoholic beverages be of equal quality as those containing alcohol. It is inappropriate to serve a good bottle of wine in a crystal glass when the only alternative is a can of pop in the back of the refrigerator (or a pot of coffee on the stove) with nothing to drink from but a paper cup.
· The promotion of church functions must not use alcohol as an enticement to participation.
o No announcements, advertisements or promotional material should imply that drinking alcohol is a social requirement.
o Alcoholic beverages should not be a part of the identification of church events—e.g. “Bratwurst Festival” not “Beer and Bratwurst;” “Reception with Hors-d’oeuvres,” or “Reception with Light Refreshment,” not “Wine and Cheese Reception.”
o Alcohol should not be served in such a way as to teach children that growing up necessarily implies alcohol consumption. Thus, references to “kiddie cocktails,” and “Shirley Temples are to be avoided.
· All federal, state and local laws and ordinances must be observed. This includes regulations requiring licenses for the sale of alcohol, prohibiting the distribution of alcohol to minors, and serving alcohol to intoxicated persons. Serving alcoholic beverages entails incurring moral as well as potential legal and financial liability for those who become intoxicated. It is expected that responsibility will be taken for the safety of persons who become intoxicated at church functions (up to and including transportation for those whose driving might be impaired).
“But take care that this liberty of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block…” 1 Corinthians 8:9
The Blessing of Holy Matrimony and the Blessing of Holy Union at the Church of St. John the Evangelist
The Rev. Kristin Orr, Rector
(November, 2011)
Introduction
Illinois state law now permits civil unions between same-sex couples and a resolution from the 2009 (national) General Convention of the Episcopal Church permits the blessing of those unions in the church (in civil jurisdictions where they are legal). In June 2011 Bishop Lee provided Guidelines for the Solemnization of Holy Unions for those wishing to perform blessings of same sex civil unions in the Episcopal Diocese of Chicago. Bishop Lee writes: “The conviction behind these pastoral guidelines is that the faithful, loving, and lifelong union of two persons of the same sex is capable of signifying the never failing love of God in Christ for the church and the world…. A further conviction is that just as Holy Matrimony is a vocation leading a man and a woman to practice disciplines of holiness, so should the gift of a similar, publicly committed discipline be available to gay and lesbian members of the church.” The guidelines also provide a liturgy, enabling same sex couples to “surround their vows [of Holy Union] with the prayers and blessings of the baptismal community.”
I am grateful to vestry members for their faithful and open conversations with me on the subject of blessing same sex unions and for their dedication to the grace-filled life of this parish. Following on those conversations, I am proceeding with my desire to offer the blessing of same sex Holy Unions at St. John’s. The guidelines that govern my own offering of Holy Matrimony and Holy Union are given below. As is the case in the diocesan policy, my intent is to establish parity of both opportunity and responsibility between Holy Matrimony and Holy Union.
Policy at St. John the Evangelist
It has been my past practice to offer Holy Matrimony only to active parishioners or couples with a close family member currently active in the parish. Holy Matrimony (and now Holy Union) are not “private” services; they are part of our common life as a parish community. It is my ongoing intent to offer Holy Matrimony or Holy Union only to couples with an active and existing relationship to the parish. In general, I expect regular attendance in worship and some contribution to the life of the parish by at least one person in the couple for at least six months before I will discuss scheduling the celebration of Holy Matrimony or Holy Union.
Because the common worship life of the parish is centered in the church building of St. John the Evangelist, I will not officiate at celebrations of Holy Matrimony or Holy Union in settings other than the parish church.
Summary of the Canons of the Episcopal Church and the Policies of the Diocese of Chicago Pertaining to both Holy Matrimony and Holy Union
All clergy must conform to the laws of the state. A valid civil license is required. The parties cannot be related by close kinship, and must be legally free of any other marriage or civil union.
Both parties to the marriage or civil union must state their intent that the union be lifelong, mutual and of exclusive fidelity.
At least one party to the civil union or marriage must be a baptized Christian.
The couple must receive instruction in the church’s understanding of the nature, meaning and purpose of the commitments they are undertaking.
Both parties must freely and knowingly consent to the civil union or marriage, without fraud, coercion, mistake as to identity or mental reservation.
The ceremony must be attested by at least two witnesses and recorded in the parish register.
No member of the clergy can solemnize the marriage or civil union of any person who has been the husband, wife, or civil union partner of any other person who is still living without the permission of the bishop.
A clergy person may not be required to officiate at any marriage or civil union.
Friday, November 11, 2011
Announcements for November 13
- Holiday Cookie Walk
Are you ready to bake lots of festive cookies for our big Cookie Walk on December 3rd? Please say “yes” when we ask you to bake. - Stewardship: Annual Pledge Campaign
Next Sunday, November 20, is stewardship Sunday. You will have the opportunity to offer your pledge card during worship on that day. You may also return it in worship or to the parish office earlier; but we hope to have all pledge cards in by November 20. Thank you to vestry member R.J. VanSwol, who will share his reflections on stewardship this Sunday. - Brunch Bunch This Sunday
Our annual pre-Thanksgiving Brunch Bunch is this Sunday, November 13, following the 10:00 a.m. service. We will provide the turkey and dressing. Those with last names that begin with A to F bring desserts and those with last names that begin with G to Z bring a side dish. Even if you’re not able to bring a dish, you are invited. We hope you’ll come. - Cathedral Shelter Christmas Baskets
Information on this year’s Cathedral Shelter Christmas basket program is available in the parish office. Both families and seniors are available for adoption. - ECW Potluck Luncheon
The Episcopal Church Women are holding a potluck luncheon this Wednesday, November 16, beginning at 11:30 a.m. in the Undercroft. - Community Thanksgiving Service
The annual community Thanksgiving service, hosted by the South Suburban Ministerial Association, will be Wednesday, November 23, beginning at 7:30 p.m. at Flossmoor Community Church. As usual, the Viking choir will perform. This year Pastor Orr is the preacher. - Little Hands Advent Project
Little Hands, St. John’s children’s outreach ministry, will meet next Sunday, November 20, from 4:00 – 5:00 p.m. in the Undercroft for our annual pastoral inreach project. We will make Advent cards and gifts for people who are not able to regularly attend church. - “Blue Jeans” Sunday: November 20
Wear blue jeans to church Sunday, November 20, and stay an hour after church to help with fall landscaping work on the parish grounds. - Buy a Christmas tree and support Homewood schools!
Foundation 153 is a local non-profit that raises money to fund innovative projects in Homewood's elementary schools. This year they are holding a holiday tree sale during Homewood's Holiday Lights Festival on December 2nd. Premium 6-7' Fraser Firs from Michigan will be sold from 3:00 - 9:00 pm in the Hickory Road parking lot (NW corner of Hickory and Dixie Highway). Select your tree and we will assist you with loading it onto your vehicle. Prices: $50 when pre-ordered by November 28th, $60 when purchased after November 28th. For more information and to pre-order, visit www.foundation153.org. And remember - you can recycle your tree at Irons Oaks on January 7th and 14th from 9 am to noon. Questions? Contact Tracie or Mark Moxley.
Reflection for November 13
Saturday, November 5, 2011
Good Stewards of Our Community
When I walked through the door of St. John’s in 1998, my goal was to come to church, get what I needed from the service, and get out. I’m not kidding. After being a member of Episcopal churches from the age of 3 to 22, I decided that I didn’t need church when I went to graduate school. After all, I was going to be an “intellectual.” That didn’t work, so then I decided to be spiritual but not religious. Then I finally had to admit that non-religious people don’t turn to the Book of Common Prayer on a regular basis.
I came to St. John’s wanting a place where I could connect with the ritual of the Episcopal Church. I wanted the words, and that was all. I think I was able to go to St. John’s without being a member of this community for about three weeks. Then the welcoming and encouraging began. I started to understand how the community of St. John’s and I needed each other.
Individuals never just insert themselves into a community. The community always has to welcome them in. That’s how it works. And then the work and the wonder begin. What does being a member of the community of St. John’s mean to you? For me, it means being with a group of people who inspire me to be more than I could be by myself. To be more understanding, more courageous, more forgiving, and more open. To be more of a Christian than I could be by myself.
We are part of something that, with God’s help, lasts longer, reaches further, and touches more lives than any of us can do alone. That is the power of community. Stewardship is about the community of people who are this Parish. All of us. All who gave so much to us in the past, and those who will give so much to this parish in the future because of what we do now.
What do we do to ensure that this community thrives now and in the future? We remember that this community belongs to God. We accept the responsibilities and the blessings that go with caring for it. We give to this community. We become a little more than we can be by ourselves. We continue to inspire each other.
Because the people of St. John’s were good stewards of this community thirteen years ago, I received more than I wanted, but exactly what I needed. We do that over and over again. And we will continue to give the gift of community to people over and over again because of what we do now.
Faithfully yours,
Anne Edwards
Member of the Community of St. John's
and the Vestry
Friday, November 4, 2011
Announcements for November 6
- Daylight Saving Time Ends
Remember to turn your clocks back one hour this Saturday evening. - All Saints’ Open House
The annual All Saints Open House at the Rectory will be held this Sunday, November 6, from 4:00 p.m. until 6:00 p.m. All parishioners (and guests), including children, are welcome. - Vestry Reflections on Stewardship
During these weeks of the annual pledge drive several vestry members are sharing their reflections on stewardship and the nature of life within this parish community. Thank you to Wardens Cyndie Knoll and Frank So who have already shared their thoughts within the context of worship. This week vestry member Anne Edwards provides a written reflection, provided as the next blog post. - Brunch Bunch Next Sunday
Our annual pre-Thanksgiving Brunch Bunch will be Sunday, November 13, following the 10:00 a.m. service. We will provide the turkey and dressing. Those with last names that begin with A to F bring desserts and those with last names that begin with G to Z bring a side dish. Even if you’re not able to bring a dish, you are invited. We hope you’ll come. - St. John’s Knitters
The St. John Knitters are meeting this coming Monday, November 7, at 7:00 p.m. in the Guild Room at St. John’s. Bring your knitting or crocheting and join us. - New Diocesan Executive Team
Bishop Lee has announced the hiring of individuals to form the new executive team for the Diocese of Chicago: Director of Ministries – The Rev. Jim Steen; Director of Networking – The Rev. Jennifer Baskerville-Burrows; Director of Operations – Ms. Courtney Reid. More information is available here on the diocesan website. - Print Evangelist: Call for Material
The Advent issue of the quarterly Evangelist will be published in mid-November. Please send in material by November 15. - Faith in Films: Dead Man Walking
Faith in Films will view Dead Man Walking on Friday, November 11, beginning at 7:00 p.m. in the Guild Room.
Reflection for All Saints
In our day of thanksgiving one psalm let us offer for the saints who before us have found their reward; when the shadow of death fell upon them, we sorrowed, but now we rejoice that they rest in the Lord. In the morning of life, and at noon and at even, he called them away from our worship below; but not till his love, at the font and the altar, had girt them with grace for the way they should go. These stones that have echoed their praises are holy, and dear is the ground where their feet have once trod; yet here they confessed they were strangers and pilgrims, and still they were seeking the city of God. Sing praise, then, for all who here sought and here found him, whose journey is ended, whose perils are past: they believed in the Light; and its glory is round then, where the clouds of earth’s sorrow are lifted at last (W. H. Draper).
Friday, October 28, 2011
Announcements for October 30
- Stewardship: Annual Fund Drive
The annual pledge drive mailing, including pledge cards, has been sent out. You will have the opportunity to formally offer your pledge cards during worship on November 20. They may also be placed in the offering plate or returned to the parish office any time before then. - Little Hands Work for Clean Water
Thank you to all who have contributed to Little Hands’ effort to raise money for clean water wells. Over $50 has already been raised. The kids’ “praying” well is still in the undercroft. Please continue to offer your prayers and contributions to help people who do not have easy access to clean water. - Prayers for the Faithful Departed
It has long been the custom of the church to offer prayers for the faithful departed on All Saints’ Day. The focus is particularly on those who have died during the last year, but any prayers for the departed are appropriate. As has been our custom in recent years, we will offer these prayers by name at the Wednesday service closest to All Saints’ Day (November 2). Please call the parish office if you would like to add names to the list of All Saints’ Day prayers for the faithful departed. - Prayers for the Parish
Arising out of its discussion about stewardship, the vestry invites parishioners to share their own prayers for the parish. Praying for the parish is an act of stewardship. Look for sheets in the Sunday service leaflets, or you may e-mail your prayers to the parish. - All Saints’ Open House
The annual All Saints Open House at the Rectory will be held Sunday, November 6, from 4:00 p.m. until 6:00 p.m. All parishioners (and guests), including children, are welcome.
Reflection for October 30
The Church is “the communion of Saints,” that is, a people made holy through their mutual participation in the mystery of Christ. This communion exists through history, continues in the present, and endures beyond the grave and gate of death into heaven, for God is not a God of the dead but of the living, and those still on their earthly pilgrimage continue to have fellowship with those whose work is done. The pilgrim Church and the Church at rest join in watching and praying for that great day when Christ shall come again to change and make perfect our common humanity in the image of Christ’s risen glory (Holy Women, Holy Men: Celebrating the Saints).
Friday, October 21, 2011
Announcements for October 23
- Little Hands Work for Clean Water
In this photo, some of the children who participate in the Little Hands outreach ministry are posing with the model of a well they created. Similar to a wishing well, the well is a “praying” well. Toss in some money and say a prayer for people throughout the world who do not have access to clean water. The money will be sent to the Bishop’s water well project. - All Saints Baptisms
All Saints’ Day, or the Sunday after All Saint’s Day, is one of the times appointed for baptisms in the Episcopal Church. It is a wonderful time to welcome new Christians into the fellowship of saints. Baptism will be offered at St. John’s on Sunday, November 6. Please contact the Rector if you are interested. - Prayers for the Faithful Departed
It has long been the custom of the church to offer prayers for the faithful departed on All Saints’ Day. The focus is particularly on those who have died during the last year, but any prayers for the departed are appropriate. As has been our custom in recent years, we will offer these prayers by name at the Wednesday service closest to All Saints’ Day (November 2). Please call the parish office if you would like to add names to the list of All Saints’ Day prayers for the faithful departed. - Presentation on the History of TV
On Wednesday, October 26, 2011, parishioner Dr. Steve Hofer will present “The History of Television” at the South Holland Public Library, 16250 Wausau in South Holland. The presentation will begin at 7 PM and will discuss early mechanical tv, the development of electronic tv, networks and primetime programming. There will be a question and answer session after the presentation. There will be items of display of primetime tv programs from the late 1040’s to current shows. The program is free and open to the public. - Prayers for the Parish
Arising out of its discussion about stewardship, the vestry invites parishioners to share their own prayers for the parish. Praying for the parish is an act of stewardship. Look for sheets in the Sunday service leaflets, or you may e-mail your requests. - All Saints’ Open House
The annual All Saints Open House at the Rectory will be held Sunday, November 6, from 4:00 p.m. until 6:00 p.m. All parishioners (and guests) are welcome.
Reflection for October 23
Friday, October 14, 2011
Announcements for October 16
- Vestry Meeting
The October meeting of the vestry is this Monday, October 17, beginning at 7:00 p.m. - Little Hands Meets This Sunday Afternoon
Little Hands is an opportunity for children to participate in outreach ministry. The projects are designed primarily for grade school aged children, but older and younger children are welcome. Little Hands will meet this Sunday, October 16, from 4:00 – 5:00 p.m. to work on a project about water. - Electronics Recycling
The H-F Green Team is offering a free, community-wide electronics recycling program Saturday, October 22, from 9:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m. in the parking lot at Parker Jr. High School. Parker is 1.5 blocks west of St. John’s on the other side of Leavitt Park (2810 School Street); enter the parking lot from Flossmoor Road. Computers, TVs, Game Consoles, Handheld electronic devices and other items will be accepted. Look for posters around the church or call 708.957.0300 for more information. - Field Trip to See Saint John’s Bible
The St. John’s Bible (www.saintjohnsbible.org) is the first illuminated, handwritten Bible to be commissioned by a Benedictine monastery in modern times. It is a spectacular work. A portion is currently on display at the Loyola University Museum of Art downtown. Parishioner Steven Russell is coordinating a field trip Thursday, October 20. Please contact him if you would like to participate. - Caregiving and Spirituality: A Quiet Day for Those Who Care for Others
Offered by the Spirituality Network of Chicago, this quiet day will be led by St. John’s parishioner Dr. Anne Edwards, psychologist and director of the Gerontology Institute at Purdue University, Calumet. Saturday, October 22, 9:30 a.m. – 2:30 p.m. at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Palos Hills. For more information or to register, call (708) 497-9699 or e-mail info@SpiritChicago.org.
Reflection for October 16
Friday, October 7, 2011
Announcements for October 9
- Little Hands Meets Next Sunday
Little Hands is an opportunity for children to participate in outreach ministry. The projects are designed primarily for grade school aged children, but older and younger children are welcome. Little Hands will meet next Sunday, October 16, from 4:00 – 5:00 p.m. to work on a project about water. - Faith in Films: See The Power of Forgiveness Friday, October 14
The 2011/2012 Faith in Films season begins with "The Power of Forgiveness" a film that won the Best Documentary Award at the Sun Valley Spiritual Film Festival in 2007. The film highlights included on the DVD cover state: "To forgive someone can be simple. But this simple act can have powerful consequences – and may lead to a personal and spiritual transformation. Over the last 20 years the study of forgiveness has come into its own. Clinicians now help guide people to forgive transgressions and get on with their lives. From Northern Ireland to Ground Zero to the Amish countryside, featuring Nobel Laureate Elie Wiesel, Buddhist master Thich Nhat Hanh, best selling authors Thomas Moore and Marianne Williamson, the Reverend James Forbes and others, The Power of Forgiveness explores this important work, and reveals how forgiveness can transform your life." Gather in the Guild Room at 7:00 p.m. for the film, popcorn and discussion. - Sing Handel’s Messiah
The Illiana Oratorio Society begins the first of seven rehearsals for Handel’s Messiah on Monday, October 17, at the First Christian Reformed Church, 16248 South Park Ave, South Holland, from 8:00 – 9:30 p.m. Performance dates are Sunday, December 4, in South Holland and Saturday, December 10, at Trinity Christian College. For further information, contact Gale Michael. - Field Trip to See Saint John’s Bible
The St. John’s Bible (www.saintjohnsbible.org) is the first illuminated, handwritten Bible to be commissioned by a Benedictine monastery in modern times. It is a spectacular work. A portion is currently on display at the Loyola University Museum of Art downtown. Parishioner Steven Russell is coordinating a field trip Thursday, October 20. Please contact him if you would like to participate. - Caregiving and Spirituality: A Quiet Day for Those Who Care for Others
Offered by the Spirituality Network of Chicago, this quiet day will be led by St. John’s parishioner Dr. Anne Edwards, psychologist and director of the Gerontology Institute at Purdue University, Calumet. Saturday, October 22, 9:30 a.m. – 2:30 p.m. at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Palos Hills. For more information or to register, call (708) 497-9699 or e-mail info@SpiritChicago.org.
Reflection for October 9
If the Ten Commandments were written today they would probably be different, argues Old Testament scholar Terence Fretheim. He points out that Deuteronomy revises the Ten Commandments recorded in Exodus: A wife is no longer listed as property and the neighbor is not necessarily male. The law was first given when the people of Israel were on a journey, and it became a compass for their wilderness wanderings. Over time their circumstances changed, and therefore the law had to change too. “Just because laws are from God does not make them unchangeable; the texts witness to a God who makes changes in the law,” so that God can be true to God’s own character and to the relational commitments made to Israel through changing times and places (Christian Century, October 4, 2011, from Word & World, Summer).
Friday, September 30, 2011
Announcements for October 2
- Blessing of the Animals This Sunday
Pets of all species (suitably restrained or contained) are invited to the Blessing of the Animal this Sunday, October 2, beginning at 4:30 p.m. at the outdoor altar. Humans can come, too. - Children’s Participation in the Offertory
Remember, children are invited to participate directly in the offertory in Sunday services by bringing their own offerings to the altar. Non-perishable food items or items for the Humane Society are possible offerings, but God cherishes all offerings. Don’t forget to bring yours. - Yarn Ministry
Yarn Ministry will meet this Monday, October 3, at 7:00 p.m. in the Guild Room at the church. If you are unable to attend the gatherings, we also welcome items you create at home. Our handy work is donated to a number of charities. All levels of experience are welcome. If you would like to learn to knit, Sue O’Brien is willing to instruct. Yarn Ministry is not limited to just knitters, crocheters are also welcome. Hope to see you there. - Sunday School Classes are Underway
Christian Formation classes for children and adults are offered on Sundays beginning at 9:00 a.m. - Sing Handel’s Messiah
The Illiana Oratorio Society begins the first of seven rehearsals for Handel’s Messiah on Monday, October 17, at the First Christian Reformed Church, 16248 South Park Ave, South Holland, from 8:00 – 9:30 p.m. Performance dates are Sunday, December 4, in South Holland and Saturday, December 10, at Trinity Christian College. For further information, contact Gale Michael. - Benefit for Young Musicians
A chamber music concert featuring the music of Robert Schuman, performed by Lisa Kristina and other musicians, will take place on Sunday, October 9, at 4:00 p.m. at Flossmoor Community Church. The admission price of $25 will benefit the Suburban Youth Symphony Orchestra’s “Incredible Opportunity” program, which provides inexpensive group string lessons, including free loan of an instrument, to elementary school children in the south suburbs. Tickets are available at the door or on-line here. The Suburban Youth Symphony Orchestra is a non-profit organization, and is also seeking donations of used string instruments, especially smaller-sized instruments for children. - Caregiving and Spirituality: A Quiet Day for Those Who Care for Others
Offered by the Spirituality Network of Chicago, this quiet day will be led by St. John’s parishioner Dr. Anne Edwards, psychologist and director of the Gerontology Institute at Purdue University, Calumet. Saturday, October 22, 9:30 a.m. – 2:30 p.m. at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Palos Hills. For more information or to register, call (708) 497-9699 or e-mail info@SpiritChicago.org.
Reflection for October 2
Friday, September 23, 2011
Announcements for September 25
- Blood Drive Results
Praise God for everyone who offered to donate blood. 28 units were collected, exceeding Lifesource’s goal, and significantly exceeding the total from last year’s drive. - Children’s Participation in the Offertory
Remember, beginning this Sunday, children are invited to participate directly in the offertory by bringing their own offerings to the altar. Non-perishable food items or items for the Humane Society are possible offerings, but God cherishes all offerings. Don’t forget to bring yours. - Regular Children’s Sunday School Classes Begin This Sunday
Families should have received a confirmation letter with class information and locations. Whether or not you had a chance to register previously, all children are welcome. Classes begin at 9:00 a.m. - Living Faithfully Adult Class Begins This Sunday
The adult Living Faithfully class begins a study of emergent Christianity with a DVD featuring Phyllis Tickle. Join us in Classroom 4, beginning at 9:00 a.m. - Flat Roof Replacement Underway
Materials have been delivered to begin replacement of all St. John’s flat roofs. Weather permitting, the work should take 1 1/2 - 2 weeks. Check out St. John’s on Facebook to see photos. - Taize Service at IJP this Thursday
Infant Jesus of Prague will be offering a Taize prayer service this Thursday evening, September 29, beginning at 7:30 p.m. Taize is an ecumenical, meditative form of worship. All are welcome. St. John’s is exploring partnering with IJP to offer these services throughout the year. - Field Trip to See Saint John’s Bible
The St. John’s Bible is the first illuminated, handwritten Bible to be commissioned by a Benedictine monastery in modern times. It is a spectacular work. A portion is currently on display at the Loyola University Museum of Art downtown. Parishioner Steven Russell is coordinating a field trip Thursday, October 20. Please contact him if you would like to participate. - Blessing of the Animals Next Sunday
The annual blessing of the pets takes place next Sunday, beginning at 4:30 p.m. at the outdoor altar.
Reflection for September 25
I love emergence theology. I’m persuaded by so much of it. It’s brilliant theology! One of the places I find it most appealing is that emergents will say, “Absolutely, the Bible is the word of God. It is God among us, but it is articulated in human speech and you cannot reduce God almighty to human speech articulation. Its worth to us is its actualness. To argue its historicity is to confine it down to the limitations of our own intellect. How dare we! What is the arrogance that allows for that position!” (Phyllis Tickle, Embracing Emergence Christianity).
Friday, September 16, 2011
Announcements for September 18
- Participate in the Parish Blood Drive – This Sunday, September 18
St. John’s is sponsoring a blood drive (in memory of parishioner Jackie Campbell) this Sunday, September 18. Appointments and more information are available online at www.lifesource.org. Walk-ins are also welcome! Remember to bring a photo ID. The blood drive will take place in the education wing. - Vestry Meeting This Monday
The September meeting of the vestry is this Monday, September 19, beginning at 7:00 p.m. - Children’s Sunday School Activities Begin This Sunday
Children of all ages are invited to gather in the Atrium this Sunday, beginning at 9:00 a.m. to help paint this year’s glass murals. Regular Sunday School classes begin next week, September 25. - ECW Potluck on Wednesday
The women of the church are having a pot luck luncheon this Wednesday, September 21, beginning at 11:30 a.m. - Delegates Needed for Diocesan Convention
The annual convention of the Diocese of Chicago takes place November 18 and 19 the Westin Lombard Yorktown Center. Please speak to the Rector ASAP if you would like to represent St. John’s as a delegate. More information on Convention is available here. - Living Faithfully Adult Class Begins Next Sunday
Next week the adult Living Faithfully class begins a study of emergent Christianity with a DVD featuring Phyllis Tickle. Sign up in the undercroft if you would like to order a participants’ handbook. - Taize Service at IJP
Infant Jesus of Prague will be offering a Taize prayer service, Thursday evening, September 29, beginning at 7:30 p.m. Taize is an ecumenical, meditative form of worship. All are welcome. St. John’s is exploring partnering with IJP to offer these services throughout the year.